Second Round of Chemo is Done!
Yesterday Steve finished his 2nd round of chemo and he did well. No real big side effects except he feels really tired. But this morning he’s still feeling good.
2 down, many more to go! Let’s hope it’s working!
Yesterday Steve finished his 2nd round of chemo and he did well. No real big side effects except he feels really tired. But this morning he’s still feeling good.
2 down, many more to go! Let’s hope it’s working!
Since we became parents, Steve has always given the girls a good night hug in kiss once they were in bed. It’s just something he always made sure he did. It sounds trivial, but it was important to him to kiss them good night and remind them how much he loved them. HE LOVED THEM SO MUCH! Tonight the girls said good night to daddy for the last time at home. Tomorrow Steve will be transferred to a Hospice Home where he can be cared for by people who can make him more comfortable than we can here. Mark and I tried our best but we are at a point where we need to hand it over to someone else. They will be giving him…
Last week was great. Steve went to work, no doctor’s appointments, the girls fought like normal, I felt anxious about the girls fighting and Max pooped in the house. It was a normal week and it felt good. I think we needed that break from “cancer”. Just to realize that we are all still here and need to move along as normal as we can. It was nice. It recharged us for another week of Chemo. Dr. Sam told us that we “can’t change what is happening to Steve. We can only live each day as best as we can so we have no regrets.” And he is right. And while it’s hard to think that way every second of every day, we try…
I knew it had been a while since I updated this site, but I didn’t realize it had been 6 months! The reason I haven’t updated in the past 6 months is there hasn’t really been a significant change….. which isn’t a bad thing when you are stage 4! This past week, Steve had his last follow up for the year so I thought it was a good time to share how he’s doing. His CEA number is holding at 11, which is low and good. He had a bone scan earlier this month because he was having some back pain and his last scan still showed a spot on his vertebrae. I won’t lie, this scared me. I was more worried than Steve was. …
Steve had his 8th round of chemo this week and he’s pretty happy it’s over because he has a break and won’t be back to the infusion center for 4 weeks. Why the break? He needed it for so many reasons and without it, going forward would have been way too hard. First of all, his CEA number is down to 11. So that’s GREAT! So if he’s going to take a break, now is a good time to do it since the number is still going down and the chemo is still working. But the real reason for the break is because he needs it physically and mentally. Even with the reduction in the 5-FU, he’s still getting the mouth sores, but not as…
I had a house full of people today. Just the way it should be. My brother brought over a bottle of something for shots. I have no idea what it was, I can’t remember. But I do remember that I didn’t have any shot glasses so we used wine glasses. My crystal wine glasses that I got when Steve and I got married. So they were pretty appropriate to use! We all got together and did a “Shot for Steve”….. it was pretty fitting considering he enjoyed himself a drink or two over the years. A memory I will always cherish!
My daughter’s and their friends spent their day off from school today selling lemonade to raise money for Colon Cancer. I’ve never been more proud of them. Not once did they ask if they could keep any of the money. Instead they went inside and got their money they have in a donation jar of their own, and poured it into the bucket. We’ve raised $245.21 so far and still have some donations coming in. Being a parent is hard, but seeing these kids do things like this reminds me it’s all worth it and I am doing a good job. And so are my friends who’s kids joined my girls today to help out. It was a great day and my heart feels good.